The Emotional Reality of Letting Go The second semester of senior year often feels like a blur. There are celebrations, goodbyes, and constant preparation for what’s to come. It becomes a whirlwind, and if we don’t slow down long enough to be present, it can be over before we even have time to take it […]
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When I moved from Singapore to Mexico City, I was wildly unexcited. First, I want to acknowledge the privilege inherent in that statement. Having the opportunity to move countries, to choose a new place to live, and to pursue a different career path is something not everyone has access to. At the same time, even
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When people talk about studying abroad as an international student, they usually focus on what you’re gaining. A degree. Independence. New experiences. A global perspective. But there’s something else happening at the same time–something that often goes unnamed. You’re also experiencing loss. Not always in obvious ways. Not always in ways you can easily explain.
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You imagined this would feel exciting. A fresh start. New friendships. Independence. Opportunity. And maybe it does sometimes. But there are also moments where it feels confusing, lonely, or heavier than you expected. Moments where you find yourself thinking: “Why is this so hard? I thought I’d be happier.” If that thought has crossed your
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The summer before college, I felt like I was barely keeping my head above water – both emotionally and, in some ways, literally. I had earned a Division I swimming scholarship, but I was struggling with depression in a very real way. Just showing up to practice felt like a victory, and my times in
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